Tension is mounting in households across South Africa as Grade 12 students embark on the critical final phase towards their final exams. This juncture isn't merely an academic checkpoint and a transformative phase, but is a daunting and often emotional rollercoaster for students and their parents.
Students are submerged in study materials while parents grapple with providing adequate support without becoming excessively involved. And, given South Africa's distinct socio-economic landscape, many households face unique stresses.
“Parents strive tirelessly to ensure their children's success within this challenging panorama,” says Dr Linda Meyer, MD of The Independent Institute of Education’s Rosebank College, adding that today’s complex times amplify these challenges.
Virtual parenting platforms abound with stories from parents and guardians of Grade 12 students, with calls for insight and advice revealing parents' collective uncertainty on how best to be a pillar of strength and guidance for their children.
Dr Meyer says during the next few weeks, parents should adopt the following mantras:
She says parents can provide meaningful support in two ways: through practical facilitation, and emotional anchoring.
Dr Meyer says there are a number of strategies which, if incorporated into the weeks leading up to the final exams, can boost a student’s wellbeing and academic success.
Establish a Routine
Optimal Study Environment
Effective Study Techniques
Past Exam Papers
Limit Distractions
Exam Day Preparedness
Seek Help When Needed
Stay Informed
Preparing for the Matric exams is as much about persistence and strategy as it is about knowledge. Students can confidently enhance their performance and face exams by being systematic, focused, and proactive, Dr Meyer says.
“And most importantly, we need to apply flexibility and understanding in the parenting approach during this time. Young Adults, with their unique personalities and coping mechanisms, require tailored support.
But beyond academic challenges and triumphs, we should appreciate the journey and celebrate continuous learning, personal evolution, and the tenacity to bounce back, irrespective of the outcomes.”